{"id":7563,"date":"2025-12-05T00:00:03","date_gmt":"2025-12-04T23:00:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/spiritmeat.net\/?p=7563"},"modified":"2025-12-04T23:33:15","modified_gmt":"2025-12-04T22:33:15","slug":"05-december-2025-when-counsel-saves-destiny-proverbs-1114-proverbs-1522","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/spiritmeat.net\/fr\/2025\/12\/05\/05-december-2025-when-counsel-saves-destiny-proverbs-1114-proverbs-1522\/","title":{"rendered":"5 d\u00e9cembre 2025\u00a0: Quand les conseils sauvent le destin \u2013 Proverbes 11:14\u00a0; Proverbes 15:22"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<p><span class=\"tie-dropcap\">O<\/span>ne of the greatest gifts God gave man is counsel. The Bible says, \u201cWhere no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counsellors there is safety\u201d (Proverbs 11:14). Many young people despise counsel because they want independence. However, independence without guidance is the highway to destruction. Marriage is too weighty a decision to handle alone. When you isolate yourself and insist, \u201cI know what I am doing,\u201d you are already deceived. Proverbs 15:22 says, \u201cWithout counsel purposes are disappointed: but in the multitude of counsellors they are established.\u201d Counsel does not reduce you; it preserves you. A voice of experience can see the trap your excitement is hiding from you. To ignore godly counsel is to write an invitation letter to regret.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t confuse counsel with opinion. Not every voice qualifies to speak into your destiny. Your friends on social media cannot see your tomorrow. Your unbelieving relatives cannot interpret God\u2019s vision for your life. Counsel must come from voices aligned with your purpose\u2014pastors, spiritual parents, and mentors who have walked the road ahead. Even in the Bible, great men and women submitted to counsel. Moses listened to Jethro; Ruth listened to Naomi; Timothy listened to Paul. None of them became smaller because they obeyed counsel; they became stronger. If you think you are wiser than everyone, it is pride disguised as confidence. Pride has ruined more marriages than poverty ever did.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>God gives shepherds as His instrument of safety; rejecting them is rejecting His protection.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>To apply this truth in your life: (1) Identify who has God\u2019s authority to speak into your choice of marriage. Don\u2019t assume; be deliberate. (2) Weigh counsel with the Word of God. Any voice that contradicts Scripture is noise, not counsel. (3) Learn to test your conviction with spiritual authority over you. If you are defensive and angry when corrected, you are not ready for marriage. (4) Counsel is not control; it is confirmation. God will use your counsellors to affirm or check what He is already saying. (5) Be humble enough to stop if counsel says, \u201cThis is not God.\u201d The pain of stopping now is smaller than the pain of regretting later. I decree over you today: you will not ignore the voice of safety; the Lord will surround you with wise counsellors; and your ears will hear truth that preserves your destiny.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>THOUGHT TO PONDER:<\/strong> Do I treat godly counsel as optional advice or as divine safety? Who has the right to check my decisions before they become irreversible mistakes?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote quote-simple is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><strong>PRI\u00c8RE:<\/strong> <strong>Lord, surround me with wise counsellors, and give me humility to heed Your voice through them for the preservation of my destiny.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n\t\t<div class=\"tie-padding  has-padding-left has-padding-right\" style=\"padding-left:5%; padding-right:5%; padding-top:0; padding-bottom:0;\">\n\n\t\t\t<p><\/p>\n\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-preformatted\"><strong>LA BIBLE EN UN AN :<\/strong><br>Hosea 1:1\u20133:5; 1 John 5:1\u201321; Psalm 124:1\u20138; Proverbs 29:5\u20138<br><br><br><strong>SPIRIT MEAT SUR ANDROID ET iOS<br><\/strong><br>Spirit Meat on Android: https:\/\/bit.ly\/SpiritMeatAndroid<br>Spirit Meat on iOS: https:\/\/bit.ly\/SpiritMeatIOS<br>YouVersion: http:\/\/bible.us\/r\/GbY<br><br>\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014<br><br>J\u00e9sus est Seigneur !<br><br>\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014<br>www.dreamcentreoftheloic.org<br>www.soundcloud.com\/reverendareogun<br>www.dciradio.org<br>https:\/\/bit.ly\/SpiritMeatDailyDevotionalWhatsApp<br>YouTube Channel- Sola Areogun Ministries<br>+2348037252124<br>#SpiritMeat<br>#ReverendAreogun<br>\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014<br><br><em><strong>Copyright \u00a9\ufe0f 2025<\/strong><br>The public is hereby informed that exclusive copyright<\/em><br><em>subsiste dans cette \u0153uvre et donc toute tentative de reproduction,<\/em><br><em>copier, distribuer au public \u00e0 des fins commerciales, publier tout<\/em><br><em>traduction de l&#039;\u0153uvre, r\u00e9aliser un film relatif \u00e0 l&#039;\u0153uvre,<\/em><br><em>faire une adaptation de l&#039;\u0153uvre, soit dans son int\u00e9gralit\u00e9, soit en grande partie<\/em><br><em>une partie de l&#039;\u0153uvre, soit dans sa forme originale, soit sous toute autre forme<\/em><br><em>d\u00e9riv\u00e9 de mani\u00e8re reconnaissable de l&#039;original constitue une atteinte \u00e0 la<\/em><br><em>droit de l&#039;auteur et sujet \u00e0 litige sauf et sauf<\/em><br><em>l&#039;auteur a officiellement et clairement autoris\u00e9 ladite personne<\/em><br><em>ou les personnes ou l&#039;auteur sont clairement mentionn\u00e9s dans l&#039;\u0153uvre.<\/em><\/pre>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>ne of the greatest gifts God gave man is counsel. The Bible says, \u201cWhere no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counsellors there is safety\u201d (Proverbs 11:14). Many young people despise counsel because they want independence. However, independence without guidance is the highway to destruction. 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