{"id":1784,"date":"2021-12-21T00:00:57","date_gmt":"2021-12-21T00:00:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/spiritmeat.net\/?p=1784"},"modified":"2021-12-21T06:42:17","modified_gmt":"2021-12-21T06:42:17","slug":"21-dec-2021-giving-the-other-person-what-they-want-ephesians-522-25","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/spiritmeat.net\/fr\/2021\/12\/21\/21-dec-2021-giving-the-other-person-what-they-want-ephesians-522-25\/","title":{"rendered":"21 d\u00e9cembre 2021\u00a0: Donner \u00e0 l\u2019autre ce qu\u2019il d\u00e9sire \u2013 \u00c9ph\u00e9siens 5:22-25"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"tie-dropcap\">je<\/span>Dans le mariage, il faut apprendre \u00e0 donner \u00e0 l&#039;autre ce qu&#039;il d\u00e9sire, et non ce que l&#039;on d\u00e9sire soi-m\u00eame. Le mariage est un appel divin \u00e0 vivre pour l&#039;autre. Ne vivez pas pour vous-m\u00eame dans le mariage. Avant de vous marier, vous viviez pour vous-m\u00eame. Vous rentriez et sortiez \u00e0 votre guise. D\u00e8s le mariage, Dieu souhaite une transition. Vous \u00eates appel\u00e9s \u00e0 vivre pour l&#039;autre, \u00e0 r\u00e9pondre \u00e0 ses besoins.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Maintenant que vous \u00eates mari\u00e9e, vous ne pouvez plus fr\u00e9quenter vos amis \u00e0 l&#039;ext\u00e9rieur pendant que votre mari vous attend \u00e0 la maison, et inversement.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Sais-tu ce que ton conjoint d\u00e9sire, ce dont il a besoin, ce qu&#039;il aime ou ce qu&#039;il d\u00e9teste\u00a0? Arr\u00eate de te comporter avec lui comme tu aimerais \u00eatre trait\u00e9. Sais-tu que tes go\u00fbts alimentaires ne sont pas forc\u00e9ment ceux de ton mari\u00a0? Tu peux donner \u00e0 tes enfants ce que tu aimes, mais tu ne peux pas donner \u00e0 ton mari ce que tu aimes.<\/p>\n<p>Vous devez d\u00e9couvrir ce qu&#039;il d\u00e9sire. La voiture que vous convoitez, avez-vous v\u00e9rifi\u00e9 si votre femme la d\u00e9sire aussi\u00a0? Vous lui avez offert une voiture pour son anniversaire, mais \u00e9tait-ce le mod\u00e8le qu&#039;elle souhaitait ou celui que vous pr\u00e9f\u00e9riez\u00a0? Faire plaisir \u00e0 l&#039;autre renforce votre mariage. Il est essentiel de comprendre ce principe. Cessez de lui donner ce que vous d\u00e9sirez.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"quote-simple\">\n<p><strong>PRI\u00c8RE:<\/strong> Seigneur, aide-moi \u00e0 comprendre et \u00e0 mettre en pratique ce principe dans mon mariage, au nom de J\u00e9sus. Amen !<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\t\t<div class=\"tie-padding  has-padding-left has-padding-right\" style=\"padding-left:5%; padding-right:5%; padding-top:0; padding-bottom:0;\">\n\n\t\t\t<p><\/p>\n\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-preformatted\"><strong>LA BIBLE EN UN AN :<\/strong>\nZacharie 1:1-21, Apocalypse 12:1-17, Psaume 140:1-13, Proverbes 30:17<\/pre>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-verse\"><\/pre>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>n marriage, you must learn to give to the other person what they want not what you want. Marriage is a divine call to live for the other person. Don\u2019t live for yourself in the marriage. Before you got married, you were living for yourself. You came home when you liked and you went out [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1714,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[27],"tags":[210,149,152,189],"class_list":["post-1784","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-december","tag-couples","tag-give","tag-god","tag-marriage"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/spiritmeat.net\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1784","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/spiritmeat.net\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/spiritmeat.net\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/spiritmeat.net\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/spiritmeat.net\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1784"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/spiritmeat.net\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1784\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1787,"href":"https:\/\/spiritmeat.net\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1784\/revisions\/1787"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/spiritmeat.net\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1714"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/spiritmeat.net\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1784"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/spiritmeat.net\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1784"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/spiritmeat.net\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1784"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}