There is a requirement for the preparation to make a Christian shine in God’s purpose for him. That shinning is a direct manifestation of the working out of a believer’s divine destiny. Your shinning as a Christian will not come as a result of ambition or human effort. It will come as a manifestation of divine destiny. Therefore, the person that God has chosen for you as a destiny father will play a crucial role in your life. Every person needs the following fathers in their lives: God - who is the heavenly father, an earthly father, a destiny father, and then other kind of fathers in career etc. The most important fathers in your life are three: the heavenly father, your earthly father and your destiny father.
Your heavenly father is the one that designed you and created you. Your earthly father is the channel through which you came into the world: black, white, brown, yellow or red. He gave you a face and he’s supposed to do certain things for you. But do you know that your earthly father not being there for you does not mean you will fail in life. There are people that their fathers died before they were born and yet they still made it. Esther was an orphan and she became a star. I believe that on the earthly side, your destiny father is more crucial in your life than any other kind of father. He is the person that will take you by hand and walk you through the process to becoming the product that God has designed you to become. Fathers bring graces in to our lives and God has not designed life to be lived by struggle but by grace. In Esther’s case, it was Mordecai that God chose for her as a destiny father. And I ask you a question, have you found your own destiny father or you are walking the road of destiny on your own? Have you found the man that has a divinely granted insight into who you are in God, what you are supposed to do on the earth and why you have the challenges you have? There are fathers that celebrate you, but your destiny father is to mould you to be what God wants you to be. He will not be a man that will be emotional with you many times because emotionalism is the assassin of divine greatness.